WHY DO WE HAVE TO BE MONOGAMOUS?

OK this is why I love books so much, they have the ability to draw out things in us we like to hide or keep buried. 
This is the case for me; I think weird things and have ideas, I have always since a teenager wondered why I was only allowed one partner at a time?
 Why should I only love one man at a time?
 The heart is capable of loving multiple people at the same time? 
Why is it that a women gets called a whore for exploring her sexuality and enjoy it why the fuck is that frowned upon who says that's wrong?  
If I were to say fall in love with two guys why can I not have them both why do I have choose?
A few months back I bought a book after seeing a few of my fav blogs raving about it, unfortunately I did not start reading it until yesterday......what the bloody hell was I waiting for .....I seriously wanted to Kick myself for not reading sooner. 
After a few chapter I was gobsmacked I could not believe what I was seeing on the pages I had to keep re-reading.
I felt like someone had gotten inside my head and everything that I keep locked away was now on paper right in front of me. 
I did not think anyone else thought they way I do.....I never speak about this people just think I'm weird; which I guess I am. 
I am happily married and not into swinging or orgies or anything like that I DEFINITELY DO NOT AGREE WITH CHEATING.
 I just feel females should be able to exploring their sexuality freely. 

please please leave a comment with you thoughts. 
            
                               

I am about to start book 2 for my blog stop on Friday (review on both books will be posted)